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Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Blog Organization

I finally got around to organizing my blog a little bit more. In case anyone cares, the post labels, archives, "about" blurb, and additional pictures can now be found on their own separate pages. While I haven't been able to label all 400+ posts yet, I'm getting close.
I know that this blog is mostly read by my close friends and select family members, but I do hope that other folks who stumble upon it will find some of my posts useful or at least entertaining. According to Blogger's stats, my Best Beef Stroganoff Ever recipe is the most common path to my blog via Google searches. (I probably get like 12 hits a day from that recipe alone. It is super good...so if you haven't made it yet, you should! Of course, I should update the recipe using some of the nice comments people have left. But then what would I call the new recipe, if it is, in fact, better than the original? Absolute Best Beef Stroganoff Ever?)

Some day I'll get around to buying a domain name and hosting our family blog somewhere other than Blogger...but that probably means needing to know html so I can create a nice-looking blog. So for now, I'm happy with Blogger since I'm better with GUI than html. =)

Monday, April 18, 2011

Picnic Day 2011

On Saturday, the Edwards and I went to campus for Picnic Day. There was talk last year of canceling this year's festivities because of the violence and high number of arrests due to alcohol abuse, but it was decided to amp up sobriety enforcement and emphasize the "family event" idea instead. From what I could tell, it was a success. The school paper reported that over 75,000 people were in Davis for Picnic Day this year. Unfortunately, one person died that night--a 2010 graduate of UCD fell and hit his head while at a party. No one knows, yet, whether alcohol caused the fall.

At about 10am, we loaded the umbrella stroller, snacks, water bottles, sunscreen, and Eddie into the bike trailer and headed downtown. First, we stopped at a bike shop to buy an extra bike lock. You just never know what crazy people might do to your bike if they are drunk enough...and I didn't want to get stuck walking home if some idiot stole the bike trailer if I didn't have it separately locked up (normally I only lock my bike). Then we went to the bank and picked up some bacon breakfast burritos at a coffeeshop.To avoid navigating our bikes through campus, we parked the bikes at the north end of the quad and popped Eddie into the stroller. But we decided to have our breakfast picnic on the quad since it wasn't too crowded yet.

Then we walked over to the street to see the tail end of the Picnic Day parade. We were so happy to run into Pa (Dyani's sister-in-law)! After that we headed over to the Hoagland lawn to register Eddie at the "lost kids" booth, just in case we got separated. No one there knew anything about a parent-child meet up, so we moved on to see the medical helicopter and trucks at the firestation. Eddie was mildly impressed. While the knobs, dials, and levers on the trucks were fun for a minute, he was mostly interested in running around the grass, climbing steps, and checking out every single downspout and stormdrain we passed. This kid is DEFINTELY a Bower.Edward and finally dragged him to Hutchison field to see all the dog exhibits. We got to kiss a pit bull, pet lots of random breeds, and see the amazing border collies herding sheep. At some point we met up with Cassie and Leila to go to the petting zoo. Of course, my child wasn't too keen on petting the animals. Nooooooooooooo..........he wanted to inspect their poop and containers of water and food.
"Oh...water! Mama! Water!"
As soon as I strapped him into the stroller after the petting zoo, he fell asleep. Edward wanted a fruity treat so we went to the air conditioned and relative calm of the coffeehouse in the Memorial Union for mango smoothies and cookies while Eddie snoozed. Then Edward went to the women's tennis match while Eddie ate some pizza and ran around on the bleachers. Did you know that Keens on a toddler boy are VERY LOUD on an aluminum set of bleachers? It is especially noticeable during a quiet tennis game when the toddler constantly yells "Uggle!" and points to his embarrassed uncle sitting up at the top of the bleachers.

We headed home after the game was over. Dave had stayed home to work to set up his new drill press and work on the window trim. I took a much-needed nap and then us Bowers biked to Nugget to buy supplies for a BBQ steak dinner. It was a great--but exhausting--Saturday! Next year should be more fun since I think Eddie will partake in the activities rather than the infrastructure.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Rumparooz: You Had Me At Gussets!

As you all know, we're a cloth diaper family. We launder them ourselves and use cloth wipes, too.

We started out using second-hand and gifted prefold diapers with Bummis velcro covers and Fuzzi Bunz pocket diapers that we simply used as covers (meaning we didn't stuff anything into the "pocket" of the diaper, we just set the folded prefold into the cover). We had 14 size small and about 60 size small prefolds that got us from newborn through 4 months (Eddie spit up constantly and many of the size small prefolds doubled as burping cloths). Then we moved on to using 12 size medium covers and 40 medium/regular prefolds until he was about a year old.

Prefolds are simply flat cotton cloth rectangles, with a thicker center part down the middle that is sewn together. The term "prefold" refers to the sewn together portion in the center; this is in contrast to regular flat cloth diapers that are not sewn together, requiring you to fold the center part yourself. These are less common and are much bigger.

The reason we used the pocket diapers as covers was because we wanted to use the covers a few times before having to wash them. In my opinion, pocket diapers are not worthwhile for the first six months of a baby's life. Until they start eating solids, their poop is unoffensive liquid. But, because they go all the time you will go through lots and lots of diapers.

Pocket diapers are designed to be put on the baby very much like a disposable. No pins, no Snappi. But because the absorbent part is placed inside the pocket, it means that the whole diaper (cover AND absorbent insert) gets dirty every time the baby pees or poops. So we simply placed the prefold on top of the pocket, just like you'd use a normal cover. Most of the time we could reuse the covers 3 times before they got too stinky from pee. If they got wet, we'd just hang it on the towel rod in the bathroom to dry out (baby pee is pretty unoffensive, too). Poopy ones were tossed into the pail immediately.

When he was a wee little baby we didn't use pins or a Snappi because the diaper covers did a good job of holding the prefold diaper in place. At about 3 months when he was skilled at wriggling and rolling around, we started using Snappi's to hold the cloth diaper in place under the cover.

The prefolds with a Snappi worked really well for us until Eddie could walk. This child moves SO much and SO fast that his diapers would literally fall out of the covers and down his legs! It was pretty amusing when they were only wet...but as you can imagine, having a poopy cloth diaper trailing behind him was gross. Plus it was getting REALLY difficult to get him diapered in the first place because he just wanted to get up and go!

We went online and looked for a "onesize" pocket diaper that could be adjusted to fit a child from newborn to potty training age. Snaps were important instead of velcro because we found that the velcro wore out too fast for us (especially since we wanted to use them for our future children AND we had plans to loan them out to friends to borrow).

Dave is a big fan of gussets because they greatly reduce blowouts. At this point, the only cloth pocket diaper with inner gussets are Rumparooz diapers. So we bought a pack of 12 in a variety of bold colors. (This was quite an investment--$300--and I saved all my extra money from a side job in order to buy them. But man-oh-man was it worth it!)

After 10 months of using them, the verdict is: WE LOVE THEM.

In case anyone is interested in how we use our pocket diapers, here's a play-by-play:

These are Rumparooz:This is the outside part. It is lying on top of a size small prefold diaper (we keep a clean one under Eddie's tush during changes to keep the changing pad cover clean):This is the fleece inside part that touches the baby's skin. It is much thicker than the fleece lining in Fuzzi Bunz and Bum Genius pocket diapers (the latter isn't even fleece so it is less absorbent):
Here's a disposable diapers so you can see the inner and outer gussets (I'm holding the inner one):And here's a play-by-play of how we diaper Eddie (my stuffed frog, Fiber, is filling in because Eddie was too busy to cooperate):

Hi Fiber!First, lay the kiddo down on the changing table:Next, grab a diaper (mine has a diaper liner already inside):Put it under the kiddo's rump:
Pull the liner up over the baby's crotch so if he poops it'll be "caught" by the liner:
The pull it up and snap it into place:Since this is a "onesize" diaper there are oodles of snaps so you can snap it to fit any size kiddo:And here you have a happy kiddo, ready to conquer the world!These diapers come with a variety of absorbent "insert" options. There are two sizes:The small contoured one is designed for newborns, to reduce the bulk between their little legs. As the baby grows, you can change to the larger, rectangular one. It has snaps on it so you can make it smaller. This is how we use it right now, because the doubled-over fabric is extra absorbent:You also have the option of using them both together for extra absorbency. This is a good idea if your baby is a heavy wetter, or you use cloth at night. We don't use cloth at night anymore (and have to use special nighttime disposables that are SUPER absorbent) because Eddie was blowing out every night.These diapers are great for a super active toddler like Eddie. I tried to take an "action" shot of him running around the house in a Rumparooz diaper but he was too fast for my camera. So this is the best picture I could get. He's currently 29 pounds, 34" tall, and 19 months old. This brand seems to run a little small, so I don't think he'd be able to wear them for another full year...but hopefully we'll be potty trained by then!And just in case that wasn't enough to convince YOU to try Rumparooz onesize diapers, maybe these matching doll diapers will. I had $5 in Kanga Care credit to use up so I bought the bubbles print one for Eddie's premie Cabbage Patch doll. With taxes, shipping, and the diaper it came out to less than $5! (See them here.)

Sunday, April 10, 2011

How to Use Disposable Diaper Liners

I could never find a good online tutorial on using disposable/flushable diaper liners. So I figured I'd make one myself!

We have been using size large Bummis brand diaper liners for Eddie's cloth diapering since he began eating solid food. Once he got some real food into him, his poops got nasty and I was tired of scraping them into the toilet.
A roll of liners costs $9 here in Davis, but I'm sure they are cheaper online. It works out to $0.09 each, assuming you only use them once. However, you can use them more than once if:
That can bring the cost down by more than half!

But then I realized that you can also use washed disposable wipes as liners, too. Wipes are a good, inexpensive alternative to disposable liners. However, they are NOT flushable! So make sure you throw them away.

Flushable/disposable diaper liners are a thin, papery material that are designed to "catch" poop in a diaper. The idea is that the solid poop will collect on the liner so the parent simply gathers up the liner and tosses it into the garbage or the toilet. We don't flush them because we don't trust our house's old plumbing. Washed and dried disposable wipes are good liners, too, and are used exactly the same way. They are often a bit smaller so I have to stretch them out a bit to fit across the entire diaper. It isn't uncommon for them to have some holes throughout, but generally the "webbing" is enough to work.

Here is a picture of a washed diaper liner that was washed and dried (and stretched back out). You can see that there are some holes, but it will still work just fine!It might seem like one extra step in the already labor-intensive routine of using cloth diapers, but we've found that it is quick (and 100% worthwhile!) to simply fold them into the diapers before we put them away.

First, we stuff the inserts in to the pocket diapers. Then stack the flat/open diapers. Next we lay down a clean/dry diaper liner, fold the diaper in half, and stack it with the others.

Having all the diapers folded with a liner inside makes diapering super easy. I just grab one of the diapers and open it, making sure to unfold the liner at the same time. (My stuffed frog, Fiber, is filling in for a human baby here...)Put the whole thing under the kiddo's rump:
Pull the liner up over the baby's crotch so if he poops it'll be "caught" by the liner:
The pull the actual diaper up:Then snap it closed:Most of us know our baby's poop schedule, and would be inclined to only use a liner when you are sure he's going to poop. I've been duped too many times so I always include a liner. Since we wash and reuse them, it makes cloth diapering cheap AND easy.

Friday, April 8, 2011

Toddlers = Surprises

I just had to document some of the weird things Eddie has been doing lately. He's always cracking me up...unless he's throwing a tantrum.
  • He was "helping" me take out the garbage yesterday evening. My routine is to collect the little garbage cans from the bathrooms and bring them into the kitchen so I can dump them all into the one bag. We throw dirty disposables diapers into a small black lidded garbage can that we keep under the sink (to prevent dumpster diving...ew...). I always leave it in the garage for a few hours so it can air out. Well, Eddie decided to play with the main part of the can (not the stinky insert). Hours later, after he was in bed, I went to put it away but couldn't find it. I decided to start a load of laundry in the meantime...and guess what I found inside our front-loader? The garbage can, of course.
  • He likes to walk around the utility yard with me, pointing out all the piles of dog poop. I follow him with the pooper scooper thing. Whenever he finds one he points and yells, "POOP! Yuh-gee! Yuh-gee!" I LOVE LOVE LOVE the way he says "yucky." I'll have to capture it on video soon before he learns to make the "k" sound in that word.
  • Since we brought our baby bantam chickies home, he insists on being held up so he can see them. They are kept inside an opaque Rubbermaid tote on the workshop bench so the dogs can't get to them. He yells, "See! I seeeeee! Yick-yens!" As soon as I pick him up his little feet and legs start kicking out of excitement. He peers over the edge of the container and is silent for a few seconds (truly, a rare state for him). Then he points out where the yick-yens are, where the food is, and where the water is. He's a little farmer-in-training.
  • He tries REALLY hard to pronounce the ends of words. I'll say something and then he'll repeat it, then I'll repeat it. Hearing him say "thoughT" and "milK" is adorable.
And just to be complete, here are the non-adorable things:
  • Tantrums
  • Throwing his food or whatever you hand him when you--gasp--mistakenly hand him the wrong thing. It'll be nice when he has better vocabulary so I will actually understand what he's asking for.
  • Whining. What bugs me more is that I respond to it! For the last two weeks I've been trying really, really hard to ignore him when he's whining and then flatly state that he needs to use words to tell me what he wants. Usually he can't because he doesn't have the words yet. So I make a suggestion to see if that's what he wants. This is, of course, encouraging him to keep whining to get whatever he needs from me. But I feel like I have no choice because he can't really talk yet. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. This is a short line to walk. Suggestions, anyone?

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Chicken Tractor!

Dave finished our chicken tractor this weekend. It is a mobile chicken pen with an open bottom, designed to allow you to control where the chickens can be in the yard. We'll usually have ours set up between the beds in the garden so our chickies can eat all the insects, weeds, and weed seeds without damaging the vegetables.

Dave's handiwork got Eddie's seal of approval!Inside I hung a small waterer and feeder. They have a perch under a small shaded area. On hotter days I'll be sure to put an extra shade over the top so they won't get too hot.There is a door on one end to let the chickens (and Eddie) in and out. Wheels on the opposite end from the handle allow me to move it around the yard pretty easily.


We're not sure we like the blue color, but it was the cheapest, funnest outdoor color I could find that was pretinted. I wanted a blue color because I thought it would evoke "cool" feelings in the garden during our hot, hot summer months.

Monday, April 4, 2011

Terrible Twos

At 19 months old, we're smack in the middle of Eddie's second year of life. And that means that the infamous "terrible twos" are upon us.

Until Saturday afternoon he was his normal, mostly-happy toddler self. Granted, he was still getting into everything, always going-going-going, and eating just enough to keep up his high level of activity, but he was always fun to be around.

Then he started having tantrums. Intense crying, hitting and pushing me away, refusing everyone and everything. You know it is bad when he won't even agree to going outside to see the chickens!

He gets really frustrated when he doesn't get what he wants, then gets even more frustrated when he can't tell us what it is he wants. He understands SO much of what we say...but he doesn't have the words yet to tell us most things. So we try to use adjectives when we sympathize with him so he'll (hopefully) learn to use those words instead of flipping out.

"Oh buddy...I'm sorry you're frustrated. It must be frustrating when you can't tell me what you need."

"I'm sorry you're sad and upset right now. When you are done being upset, just let me know."

Last night was a good example of his level of understanding: Dave and Eddie were on the patio collecting the wooden apple boxes so Dave could put them in the van. I had a bunch of 6-packs of plants in one of them. Dave hollered through the screen door, "Babe? You want me to take the 6-packs of plants out of the crate and leave them on the patio for you?" I didn't hear him very well so he came inside to talk to me. When he went back outside, Eddie was carefully taking all the plants out of the crate and putting them on the chair for me.

I know tantrums are part of a child's normal, healthy development at this age. But dangit, it is so frustrating. Well, for me it is mostly exhausting. I am very, very grateful that my job is flexible and we rarely have to be anywhere at an exact time so I can let him work it out if he needs to.

Here are some great articles about tantrums, from the UC Davis Human Lactation Center's blog:
And as bad as this seems, I know it pales in comparison to what his future behavior will be like as a teenager...